Sexual health series in Los Angeles for women

A four-week "Sexual Health Series for Women" is taking place starting Wednesday evenings January 6.


The series is led by Rachel Scheer, Certified Love and Sexuality Coach who can be reached at www.scheerintimacy.com.


The series will begin Wednesdays at 6:30 pm, 400 S. Beverly Drive, Suite 316, Beverly Hills, CA 90212. The topics to be covered are:

January 6: Low Sexual Desire

Do you feel like you are never in the mood for sex? Learn how to work through this common dilemma.

January 13: Orgasms

Are you unable to reach orgasm either by yourself or with a partner? We will discuss the causes and ways to resolve this issue.

January 20: Dating and Body Image Issues

Are you having a tough time finding the love you deserve? Are you self-conscious about your body? Find out how to conquer your dating fears.

January 27: Sexual Inhibitions and Trauma

Do you feel guilty about having sex? Have you ever had a bad sexual experience? We will spend this evening helping you remove your negative thoughts.

For women ages 18 and up

$20 per week (cash only)

RSVP to rachel@scheerintimacy.com

Erotic tip: touch

Touch is a way to stimulate eroticism in everyday situations. Here are 3 simple tips to make touch a part of your everyday life and increase the erotic joy in your relationship.

Step 1

Simply walk to where your partner is -- the kitchen, garage, front yard -- and touch him or her on the shoulder or move your finger along the hand.

Step 2

For relationships where passion has dulled, or one partner does not seem to be aware of the other, don't rush too many little touches in to a single day. Plan on one deliberate touch once a day or once every other day to start.

Step 3

Say one caring word about your partner as you make the touch. Say your husband is filling up the water container that's kept in the refrigerator. Simply move your finger along his shoulder and say "thanks, sweetheart, for taking time to do that."

Summary

One soft touch may not transform a dull moment into heightened eroticism and passionate lovemaking, but a series of light gentle touches sends a signal of caring and awareness.

Erotic Touches on My Wife: Her Bottom

I enjoy touching my wife's bottom even during the day when she's wearing jeans. I like to slide my hand over the buttocks and sometimes I will slap them.

I don't slap too hard, especially during the course of the day when I'm walking through a room like the kitchen and she's bending over the dishwasher. I like to her surprise!

To let her know I want her in the evening, I will lay my hand against her rear end - her derriere - and I will leave it momentarily and then I'll walk away without saying anything.

Touch is so important and I think of it now . . . when she lies against me in bed and she backs up to me . . . my erection presses against her and I wrap my arms around her torso and I feel her small breasts and then I kiss her on the back of the neck.

Visions form in my imagination of her being massaged and, in reality, I begin to massage her bottom. I touch her . . . gently, sometimes I will pull back the sheets and I will spank her lightly.

I can tell she's aroused when she begins to move her hips up and down, up and down . . . I will place my fingers between her legs and kiss her ear, breathing deeply into it.

The touches may not always lead to intercourse. Many times I will straddle her and she will lick me while I will bend over and place my tongue inside her and against her clitoris.

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