Friday, April 15, 2011

Relationship is the Heart of Eroticism

Pursuing erotic desires is the quest to have meaningful relationships.
This can be true for women who want their husbands and boyfriends to pay attention to them and appreciate the finer details about them like their eyes, their laugh, and their hair. If the man in their life is not paying attention to these intimate details, then they can experience a level of rejection.

For a man, it could be he wants his wife or girl friend to accept him on his erotic journey and explore sexually and have a venue for sharing sexual fantasies and not be put to shame.
I’m currently writing an erotic romance, a novella, where the heroine of the story goes camping to getaway from a hectic life and find healing in the mountains. She meets a man who takes notice of her little details but then she gets kidnapped into an alternate world where there is plenty of sexual activity but there is no depth of relationship. Ultimately, there is no eroticism.
What if your significant other is not paying attention to you erotically? Feel free to show them this post and then ask them to pay attention to this part of you and to find a way to appreciate and accept your desires. Eroticism should bring us into deeper relationship with the ones we love.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Dressing sexy and erotically

Dressing sexy to elicit erotic reactions from the ones we love does not require much budget. 
That’s the good news. The right clothing does not have to break a budget and it does not even have to be purchased at a place like Victoria’s Secret. Heck, a sexy shirt can be purchased at a thrift store (seriously) and an awesome bra and panty set can be purchased at a discount retail outlet.
Look at the covers of erotic romance stories to get ideas for dressing sexy and erotically. My upcoming release, Riding Shotgun, features a cover with a woman dressed in a white shirt and a teal bra underneath. Not much budget required.
A teal bra and panty may not be easy to find but it’s doable.
Here’s the idea. Dressing sexy and erotically requires a sexy and erotic attitude. Attitude and sexy movements can generate a lot of heat between couples.
Go ahead and go to an upscale store with your lover to explore options. Find out what you both like when it comes to dressing erotically and sexy. That’s a great place to start and that itself can be a hot exercise. It doesn’t mean that you have to buy much or spend much but it will help you both communicate.
Riding Shotgun is an upcoming release published by Breathless Press and written by me. Visit my website at