The Erotic Beauty of Kissing Slowly

In the soft light of a room, there is an undeniable thrill with a finger under the chin, pulling one another closer, and exploring the sounds and sensations of lips touching and the pressure of moving closer together and two mouths connecting as one.

Pause and savor the kiss, close your eyes, and touch your noses together and consider the kiss you just experienced. Now do it again, slowly. Touch lips to each other and do not force. Patience builds the heat and steam.

Listen to the breath and the rhythm.

Now the tongue join in and touch and let the tongues wrestle and use the tip of your tongue to explore your lovers lips and teeth.

A kiss lowers inhibitions ... sparks the thoughts that fuel the fantasy and bring out the passionate sexuality.

Touch – Opening the Door to Pleasurable Awareness

Our skin is the largest sex organ we have, teeming with nerve endings and ready to react to all kinds of sensation and that means discovering sensual touches can open the doors to deeper arousal.

Heighten sensual awareness through touch. If you're married or dating, invite your partner to participate.

Before touching each other, simply explore everyday objects through touch. Feel a hard object like a cutting board. Run fingers along the surface and describe the first sensation that comes to mind. Is the board hard plastic or is it wooden.

If you have both kinds in your house then seek the difference between each.

Try a piece of soft fruit. Do this while lying in bed with each other. Grasp a peach or banana. Touch the peel. Kiss it. Run your lips along the surface. Then touch the part of the fruit you would eat. Hold it to your lips, your breasts, or the insides of your thighs.

Do you notice a difference in the sensations?

If you're doing this with a partner does this stimulate you and arouse you? Or is it simply fun and

perhaps even funny? It's okay to giggle and have fun.

After all, that's part of experiencing erotic joy.

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