The Erotic Joy of a Kiss and a Kiss in Film History

The Kiss ... moist lips brushing create sparks to ignite heavy breathing and open the gates of passion, leading to arousal flowing through our bodies.

The tongue parts the lips and sensual moans escape on the breaths and the sounds of touching clothes fills the air. Passionate vibrations rise and thinking becomes clouded as lust has its way.

The freedom now blossoms -- freedom to unbutton a shirt or blouse, unsnap jeans, and unveil one's body and lie back to absorb the heated eroticism.

Mmm, so much from one caring kiss.

To illustrate my thoughts today, I added this moment from Ingrid Bergman and Cary Grant in Alfred Hitchcock´s film "Notorious."Amazing, isn't it, how a filmmaker like Hitchcock would care about kissing. He was aware, though, of the human need for affection.

The Erotic Beauty of Kissing Slowly

In the soft light of a room, there is an undeniable thrill with a finger under the chin, pulling one another closer, and exploring the sounds and sensations of lips touching and the pressure of moving closer together and two mouths connecting as one.

Pause and savor the kiss, close your eyes, and touch your noses together and consider the kiss you just experienced. Now do it again, slowly. Touch lips to each other and do not force. Patience builds the heat and steam.

Listen to the breath and the rhythm.

Now the tongue join in and touch and let the tongues wrestle and use the tip of your tongue to explore your lovers lips and teeth.

A kiss lowers inhibitions ... sparks the thoughts that fuel the fantasy and bring out the passionate sexuality.

Take time to kiss

Did you ever really take time to kiss? 

Or perhaps you once did but now with your spouse or lover life is often in the way?

Rekindle the moment when your lips lightly touched, barely sensing each other's flesh and move no further. Linger. Absorb. Sense. 

Sexual heat builds like water in a garden hose when it's constricted. Once the flow is released then it forms and sprays mightily.

Enjoy the kiss and the fullness of the lips in their tender glory. And then after you have appreciated each other's warmth and can no longer stand it then move your lips to the ear and caress the exposed flesh.

Yes, don't think of kissing as the first moment of joining and then moving on to what is really cool and hot! No, consider the kiss as end unto itself and a moment of connection that is itself special.

The naked flesh of the lips is worth taking time to explore a sensual kiss. 

One kiss can lead to erotic bliss.