We live in a super charged society where music is fast, food is tossed at us, and mountains of work are expected to be climbed and completed. But when it comes to erotic joy fast is too fast.
Check out this lap dance video. It's PG-rated really. Notice the moves - of course you can't miss them. But ask yourself, "what makes this sexy?" Slow, deliberate moves and control of the body.
It's really quite a demonstration in eroticism and athleticism.
Slow is power when it comes to the erotic.